You will often find that at the beginning of a relationship, a couple would go through a honeymoon phase. But later on they need to find how to Rekindle Passion. A honeymoon phase is a stage in a relationship where two lovers cannot take their hands off of each other. They are literary drunk in love.

Everything is fresh and new. Your lover would drop anything to support you during a time of need. Or would do almost anything to make you feel special. You watch an onslaught of romantic movies on netflix. Or you take a million kodak moment photos together. Rest assured at the end of the day you would be in each other’s arms watching the world go by. As almost every single other problem or issue is non-existent. It is said that the honeymoon phase goes for around 6 months to a year if you are lucky.

Rekindle Passion

An exiting of the honeymoon phase is a slow and lengthy process. As you begin to learn about the lover’s bad habits and qualities that begin to pick at you.  Resentment builds up until you begin to find reasons to have sex minimally or take it off the table completely. But rest assured, you will need to step into a new part of your relationship where you find out whether they are your true love. During this important stage you are able to rekindle your flame.

Here are some easy tips and tricks that you can use to begin rekindling your passion in a relationship.

Set Aside Time For Each Other

During the honeymoon phase a couple would go out of their way to make time for each other. After we have went home from work, spent time taking care of things at home and relaxed, we find themselves too tired to fit in anything else.

This is especially the case if we have a list of responsibilities which are bigger than a recipe book. Although these activities are important, it is ideal for lovers to set aside personal time which they can spend together. They can use this time to develop their romantic and sexual relationship.

Please Them

During the honeymoon phase you would go out of your way to please your lover. For example, if they had enjoyed oral sex you may have went out of your way to give them a blow job or some highly skilled cunninglus. Find out what your lover enjoys and take your time to fulfil their wants, desires and fantasies. Read our 10 tips for mastering dirty talk take your bedroom game to the next level.

Openly Speak About Sex

At the beginning everything was new, you would speak openly about your likes and dislikes. When it came to the topic sex you were able to find out whether your standards matched up together. Talk about new ways to please each other. But once you got used of what each other liked, you both had forgotten to reopen that conversation to find out more.  Truth is people’s tastes and interests change over time. Just because someone’s like a particular fetish or kink one month does not mean they will like it the next.

Something new may have caught their eye that they may want to experiment with but there has been no option to talk about it within the relationship. Lovers have to remember to ask the important question, is there anything that they should try together?

Fulfilling these fetishes and kinks will bring something new to the relationship which wasn’t there before, it will also help develop trust.

Experiment Together

Although you might not have any kinks or fetishes, it is not an excuse to not experiment together!

• Use sex toys and sex novelty games and products to spark passion. You can invest in some sex cards, games, coupons or books which will explain to you sex positions you can try. For example, you can buy the “Lucky Sex Dice Game” by Kheper. These dice have pictures of different sex positions and activities on them. They will tell a lover what they can to do to the other person.
• Another great option is to revisit the basics with “Creative Kisses Game” by Kheper. Every single card that you pick up has a different kissing style on it. You are able to pick out the card as if it were a lucky dip.
• You can also try “Behind Closed Door Spice It Up” by Little Genie which allows the couple to explore what their sexual fantasies are.

Initiate Sex

If you are playing the waiting game, you may need to consider being the initiator when it comes to engaging in sex. Although it would be nice to be approached and asked whether you would like to have sex. Sometimes the topic is overlooked. If you would like to initiate sex you can start off by asking them whether they would be in the mood for sex sometime that day or night. And when they are they can let you know. By asking you are allowing them sometime to build up their arousal, it also does not rush them into the moment if they are busy.

These tips can be used throughout a relationship.

Whether you have been in one for just a year or whether you are in a long term relationship. Although sometimes a loving relationship can lose its flame, it does not mean that the relationship is over. You just have to remember to set a side time for each other, go out of your way to please them, remember to openly speak about sex, experiment together and initiate sex.

Follow all these steps to lead a happy and healthy love life.