Sexual exploration like the The Art Of Fingering can be a fun and thoroughly rewarding experience. Sexual exploration for women doesn’t just happen over 1 day. It can happen over weeks, months and even years. To be absolutely honest, you really never stop exploring how your body works. Or how different sensations make your body feel. So taking your time to explore your body can help you to find out what works for you and the best ways for self-pleasure.

Here are 17 ways women can master the art of fingering their clitoris and g-spot.

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Some people have more sensitive clitorises than others. If you find yourself easily becoming over stimulated by finger stimulation, vibrators and ticklers you should try this method. Wear underwear, a pair of pants or place a blanket on top of you.

Use the full palm of your hand and massage in up and down movements. If you would like additional stimulation. Apply different amounts of pressure or use something with more power like a vibrator. Some people are able to easily orgasm by doing this.

Circling the clitoris

This is one of the easiest and most popular methods of clitoral stimulation. To do this you need to use your index finger, place it on the clitoris and drag that point of skin in small circular motions. Ensure that the circles are precise and pinpoint. Maintain a slow speed until you are ready to increase it to build up a gradual climax.

Tapping the clitoris

Rather than using a finger to massage the main point of the clitoris, change your method and tap your finger directly on the clitoris. A tap should be soft but with enough pressure that it provides pleasure. So that you are stimulating a larger area, you can try using more fingers when you are tapping.

Tapping the clitoris with two fingers

This method is the same as “tapping” but instead you are using two fingers. Position the index finger and the middle finger over the clitoris. Place one finger on the left side and one finger on the right side. Tap on finger and then tap the other finger in a repetitive pattern.

Tickling the clitoris

Some people thoroughly enjoy tickling the clitoris from side to side.

Stroking the clitoris

Drag the point of your index finger in back and forth strokes along the clitoris.

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Use a shower head

A detachable shower head has multiple holes that send thin streams of water through it at differing amounts of pressure. Hold the shower head in your hand. Turn the water on so it is a body safe temperature that is either warm or cold. Adjust the water pressure so that it provides a level of stimulation that you would enjoy.

Aim the shower head directly on your clitoris. You will begin to feel a pleasurable sensation between your legs. Adjust the pressure as needed. Make sure your shower curtain is closed so that water doesn’t go splashing everywhere. Or do it in the bath so that you can relax.

Use the jet streams in a pool

One of the easiest ways to get clitoral stimulation is by simply sitting directly on a jet stream in a pool.

Use an electric toothbrush

So, you’ve probably heard all the stories about people using electric toothbrushes! Well, they definitely do! As long as it is not a shared toothbrush and you use it only for self pleasure then why not?

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Use a bullet vibrator

A bullet vibrator is fast and furious. It will provide you with a method of stimulation without all the effort. Although bullet vibrators are small inside they can be incredibly powerful.

Use a personal massager

Personal massagers take up more room so that the labia which are the external folds of the vagina are also covered. Since you are covering a larger external area you can receive more pleasure. If you would like direct clitoral stimulation, place the personal massager on its side.

Use a clitoral tickler

If you prefer the stimulation of a finger which ticklers the clitoris from side to side then you should definitely purchase a clitoral tickler. A tickler is typically designed with rabbit ears or butterfly antennas that moves back and forth.

Use an oral sex toy

If you would like to feel an experience which is similar to oral sex you should definitely invest in an oral sex toy. It uses gentle sucking to stimulate the clitoris.

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Insert a finger

Inch by inch you can try inserting a finger for g-spot stimulation. Every centimetre that your finger goes in, rub and massage the upper wall. Stimulation should be directed towards your belly button.

Use a straight or g-spot vibrator

If you would like a penetrative experience you should try using a straight or g-spot vibrator. A straight vibrator may be easier to insert because the sex toy only goes in one direction. But G-spot vibrators are incredibly popular because they are designed for pinpoint stimulation of the G-spot.

Use a rabbit vibrator

Why not have the best of both worlds? Rabbit vibrators provide dual stimulation of the clitoris and the g-spot.

Use a pulsator, thruster or sex machine

A pulsator, thruster or sex machine are used for hands free stimulation for a penetrative experience which mimics sex with two people. Pulsators and thrusters are made to be easily stored away. Whereas sex machines are much bigger but are more powerful.

And finally read our article 15 essential secrets for women to easily orgasm.