It is easy to offer someone a gentle nudge in the right direction to let them know that you would like to be asked out on a date. But what about seduction tips for shy girls? Easiest way to do that is to let them know that the odds of you saying yes are in their favour.

Here are 8 effortless Seduction Tips to get your crush to ask you out.

Who knows these steps may just help you find the love of your life.

Get to know them

You can spend time getting to know them, this can be done by reading their online profile. As well as chatting with them privately. When you do talk to your crush, you can let them know you want to be contacted later to talk to them more intimately. This will let them know you are interested in something more than just a talk.

Compliment

Take the initiative to thoughtfully tell the person how much you like them. And what about them it is that you like. For example, you can let them how your interactions with them make your day more enjoyable. Or that you appreciate their personality for the warmth it brings to other people.

You can also let them know how beautiful or how sexy they look. If the person feels likeable and appreciated, they can develop higher levels of confidence when they talk to you. Which can help give them the courage to ask you out.

Leave it to their imagination

Say something which could potentially imply that you would like to go out on a date. You can compare two different food types together and see what they say.

For example, ask them “Thai or Italian?” They may naturally assume you are asking for a date and key in all the other details for you. If you are extra naughty and you 100% know that they are into you, you can always let them know you are wearing some sexy lingerie or underwear!

Bring up something local

Do some research by finding an event on nearby. Whether it is a food festival, a wine festival, a music concert, miniature golf, a restaurant that has recently opened or a movie.

Talk about the local events that are happening in an area that you would potentially like to go to. You will be able to find out whether they are interested in the same things as you are. Let them know it would be nice to go there. It could give them the encouragement to make the very simple suggestion that you can both go there together on a date.

Transformative Seduction

Everyone has free time to kick back and relax. Try talking about your free time. For example, “I’m normally free on Sundays”. This can give the person a nudge to let them know you have time to go on a date.

Normally the natural progression of this conversation will spur the other person to talk about their free time too. And you will be able to find a matching time to do something together.

Say it outright

A great thing about living in the digital world is that you can make it as obvious as you would like to. Writing something down and sending it to them. This means they can take time to read what you have said and make a logical decision. Whereas if you said the exact same thing during day to day life, the other person may not even know that you would like them to ask you out on a date.

For example, you can say “It would be lovely to meet up with you sometime”. They can take their time to reply and you can see what they’ll say in response. In this case, you aren’t asking them out. But you engaging whether they would like to meet up with you to.

You can definitely hint towards something a little more intimately fulfilling through text messages. For example “It would be nice to get to know you more”. Or “It would be nice to see your cute face.” It will make them feel sexy and wanted in all the right ways.

Make money not an issue

Some people feel intimidated and out of another person’s league. Some people may be renting on their own, paying off their university fees or car debts. Money can be a big issue if the other person is expected to pay for the date. You can ask if they would like to go on a walk along a beach, sit together to have some coffee during brunch or watch a movie together locally.

Stop conversations at enjoyable points

When you are thoroughly enjoying your conversation with another person but you start to feel tired or the conversation is waning. Consider ending the conversation and talking to the person on another day. This way when the person thinks of you they will reminisce to the last time you spoke together which brings back good memories.

Practice Makes Perfect

I hope these dating tricks you wish you knew help you push that cute guy or girl that you have been crushing over in the right direction. And if they have maybe it’s time to prepare for that date with these 10 tips every good girl should know to prepare for a successful date night.