You’ve put on your best sexy dress hoping for a night of passion with your husband only to find out he has lost his Sex Drive. After all, it’s been a couple of weeks since you last had sex. It feels like it’s been centuries considering that you both couldn’t get your hands off of each other for hours when you first had gotten married. You’re hoping that you get to enjoy the loving caress from him tonight.
But your hope for being engulfed in the rage of passion sizzles out, as your husband shows a lack of interest in any of your advances. You’re bound to be frustrated and it’s understandable. No. Marriage is more important than sex, but a sex-deprived marriage is not healthy either.
Here Are 4 Ways to Increase Your Husband’s Sex Drive
Remove The Stressors
Sometimes, the lack of interest can be impacted by the level of stress that your man is going through right now. A marriage means taking up a huge load of responsibility. Especially if you have kids in the house. If your man is preparing for his long-awaited promotion, stress could get into his head and his sex department suffers. Here are 3 stress free shortcuts to sex that you might want to have a look at.
Well, don’t despair or vent your frustration at him for the lack of smouldering sex.
Patience is key here
When your man’s libido is suppressed by multiple stressors. But that doesn’t mean you should be idling and hoping that you’ll only have sex when all of his problems are gone.
Instead, help him to deal with the stress first.
Have some fun watching a comedy together or give him sexual massages wiht full body massage with oils and lotions to heal his body and soul. Top it up with a calming fragrance from essential oils. You’ll be surprised how he could perform in bed once his once his worries are temporarily put aside.
Feed Him Right
It doesn’t always have to be a topless waitresses to get your man going (although it helps). You can put on a sexy apron and start preparing the right food for him. This may actually turn your lack of love life around. And don’t worry if you’re nothing near a chef. As popping in some natural ingredients here and there could do the trick.
You can start pumping up his low libido
With chili peppers as they are known to boost the circulation of blood. Instead of popcorn, use Brazil nuts and pistachio when he’s watching his favorite show on the couch. Science has proven that nuts are great in giving his testosterone level a great lift.
Skip Viagra and go for melon instead. As it has the natural properties to direct blood flow to the genital areas. You’ll get him back to his prime in no time.
And if you’re into morning sex, have wild oats for breakfast and you may end up in the bed instead.
Be Mysterious
Yes, news is that men need love and care just like women do, except they are less likely to be open about it. When you’re out of the romantic love period, life would have turned mundane. You’re so used to each other, there isn’t anything left to be excited about exploring each other.
In case you didn’t realize, humans are naturally attracted to the unknown.
It doesn’t take much to bring the element of mystery to play.
Try a new perfume and pheremone spray or get a new hairstyle to keep him guessing what you’re up to. Sometimes being coy could trigger his interest and renew his attractions again. That’s part of how our biological works.
You can also change your day to day routine. If you’re a stay at home housewife, it’s time to sign up for a yoga class and spend lesser time at home. When your husband is seeing you less, he may start longing for more.
It’s reverse psychology to its basics but it may just be what saves you from a sexless marriage.
Take The Initiative
In the end, you may need to be the aggressor and start taking initiative. This doesn’t mean grabbing your husband by the collar and forcing him to strip. Instead, you can spice things up with new costumes to spark up his wild imagination. Or get a couple of sex toys if your sex life has turned into a routine.
It’s always hard to get in the mood when your husband’s libido is at an all time low.
It helps to start the ball rolling hours before the night. A couple of naughty text exchanges may break the norm. It shows him that you’re still attracted to him. Feeling of being attracted to him can be quite a turn on for men.
Also, conversations are a great mental foreplay if done right. If it’s been a while since you both really had a talk. Having a heart to heart conversation may give him the emotional boost that drives his libido up.
Sex on both physical and emotional levels is a much more pleasurable experience.
We hope these tips help and you don’t have to go through dry spells any longer. Put them into practice right away and we promise you won’t be holding onto your frustrations any longer.
Besides, it may open up a new chapter in your sex life as well.
